Hearing each other AGAIN

Unlock the Secrets of Conflict Resolution for a Healthy, Connected Relationship.
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One shouts, the other walks away.

Sound familiar?
The more one speaks, the louder the silence from the other. Sometimes both remain silent, defeated, while the silence between them builds a wall that grows higher and higher. Other times, two voices shout so loudly that words strike like lightning bolts, without truly achieving anything. These are the painful realities of conflict that many couples know - a dance of misunderstandings and heartache. But what if you could learn the art of resolving these conflicts in a healthy way?

What You'll Learn

"Hearing Each Other AGAIN" is your roadmap to better communication and a more fulfilling and connected relationship. 

This 6-chapter course, created by Louis Venter, equips you with the tools to:

Recognise conflict stances:

Learn to identify the different ways you and your partner approach conflict, and how to communicate more effectively.

Understand your attachment styles:

Discover how your early experiences shape your communication patterns. Learn how to build a secure attachment bond with your partner.

Break the pain cycle:

Move past the cycle of blame and defensiveness into a space of understanding and empathy.

Identify your pain beliefs:

Explore the hidden messages behind your arguments.

Master frustration dialogue:

Learn to express your needs and frustrations without triggering your partner.
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How will this course transform our relationship?

"Hearing Each Other AGAIN" is more than just theory. Based on topics from "The Art of Loving", each chapter combines clear explanations with downloadable worksheets and practical exercises for you to complete together.

This course will help you:

  • Communicate more effectively: Learn to listen with an open mind and express yourself clearly.
  • Resolve conflict constructively: Discover healthier ways to navigate disagreements.
  • Build a stronger bond: Deepen your connection and intimacy with your partner.
  • Feel heard and understood: Create a safe space for open and honest communication.

What to Expect:

The course is delivered in easy-to-understand modules, allowing you to learn at your own pace. A guided self-improvement resource, each chapter includes:

  • Engaging written content
    Explains key concepts in a clear and concise way.
  • Downloadable worksheets
    Reinforces learning through practical exercises.
  • Optional discussion prompts
    Encourages open communication with your partner.

You can access the course materials anytime, anywhere.

Is this course right for us?

You will find relationship-transformative value from "Hearing Each Other AGAIN"

Create a deeper connection with your partner. This course is perfect for you if you are:

Longing for deeper connection:

Even if you're not experiencing major conflict, the course can benefit couples who want to build a stronger bond and feel more understood by each other.

In a committed relationship:

This course is designed for couples who are in a long-term relationship, married, or living together.

Open to learning: 

This course is for couples who are willing to put in the effort to improve their communication skills.

Experiencing conflict:

If you and your partner find yourselves frequently arguing or struggling to communicate effectively, this course can equip you with new tools.

Ready to break negative patterns:

 If you find yourselves falling into the same unproductive arguments or feeling unheard, this course can help you break free from those patterns.

Ready to reignite the spark in your relationship?

Stop the shouting. Break the silence.
Hear each other AGAIN.

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Louis Venter

For the last fourteen years, I have been practicing as a marriage counselor and therapist, and it has been my greatest joy to see countless marriages and “impossible” situations restored to childlike wholeness.

Clinical Imago Therapist (Imago International)
Enneagram Therapist (Enneagram in the Narrative Tradition)
Spiritual Director (Centre for Spirituality; University of Pretoria)
MTh – Theology and Pastoral care (University of Pretoria)

Patrick Jones - Course author
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